When falling in love and building a relationship we form both emotional and physical bonds on many levels. When a breakup happens you may not be able to re-experience the physical bond, but you can try to reconnect with an emotional bond.
This is what TW Jackson, author of The Magic of Making Up, calls the Instant Reconnect Technique. “There are specific habits and traits that make you special and unique”, explains Jackson. “When someone thinks of you, they think of those little quirks that make you special”.
Your relationship developed those special idiosyncrasies as well. It might be the way he takes your hand when walking or the way she touches your arm as she tells a funny story. It is these little things that make a relationship unique and they make a big impact.
Stirring up these emotions by using one of these personality traits is the essence of the Instant Reconnect Technique. In addition, it can re-light the fire and start the magic of making up.